Автор: Range John Название: The Narcissistic Abuse ISBN: 1801126348 ISBN-13(EAN): 9781801126342 Издательство: Неизвестно Рейтинг: Цена: 18350.00 T Наличие на складе: Нет в наличии. Описание:
Narcissistic abuse is a form of emotional abuse perpetrated by someone who suffers from narcissism or sociopathy. These individuals have a tendency - whether conscious or unconscious - to use words and language in manipulative ways to damage, alter, or otherwise control their partner's behavior.
While all narcissistic abuse generally falls under the description of 'thought control' or 'emotional manipulation, ' there are several ways that narcissists tend to go about this. Some narcissists use manipulative techniques like gaslighting to confuse and disorient their partners so they become more susceptible to their demands and their abuse.
Narcissistic abuse can also sometimes be observed in codependent relationships. Narcissists are able to create a relationship with others in which they are dependent upon the narcissist. Strangely, the narcissist tends to be equally as dependent on the other individual - they require them as an outlet for their emotional abuse. Putting themselves above another person makes the narcissist feel good.
If you are the victim of narcissistic abuse, the most important thing to keep in mind is that the abuse is not your fault This is true even if you feel guilty, ashamed or unworthy.
It really doesn't matter what you do, all that matters is that you do something - anything - that will lift your spirits and help you shake off the apathy that has set in. A good place to start might be to reconnect with those people you were told were off limits, as well as taking up any hobbies and interests that have fallen by the wayside. Reintegrate yourself back into your passion; get reacquainted with old friends, and introduce yourself to new activities. The golden rule is, 'Don't self-restrict, and if it feels good, do it '
Do you meet people and immediately recognize something personal about them that they have never told you?
Narcissistic issues of character include an example of egotistical, pompous reasoning and conduct, an absence of compassion and thought for other people, and a requirement for unreasonable appreciation. Numerous individuals depict the NPD as fast, secretly, childish, stooping, and scary also. This way of reasoning and acting surfaces in each part of the life of the narcissist: from occupations and organizations with families and close connections.
As dark as your life might feel right now, the best chapter in the book of your life is yet to be written. You have what it takes to overcome the pain. The trauma will not last. You can take the first step towards freedom, by understanding why you need to walk away. You might feel you are always attracting narcissists, but it is not because you have a poor selection in partners, it is probably because you are naturally a kind, and sensitive person. It is out of the goodness of your heart that you meet someone. Unfortunately, some people are out to take advantage of you.
If you or someone you love has experienced narcissistic abuse firsthand, I hope that the information and advice in this book will offer some degree of comfort and help as you move forward past this awful experience. People suffer every day at the hands of narcissistic abusers, and it is more important now than ever before that we all help spread the knowledge and tools available to defend ourselves from potential abusers. It is possible to escape, even if you've already fallen as a victim. You can get out, and you can start healing. Knowledge and self-reflection are the most useful tools that will remain at your disposal from now until the last day of your life.
This book will you understanding and information about what narcissistic abuse looks like and what it can do to a person as well as how it can impact the whole family, especially the young and developing children.
This book covers the following topics:
Narcissus on the Couch
What Signs Might a Person Show if a Narcissist Emotionally Abuses Them
Why can't I be normal and happy like everyone else? Why do I always have problems? Why do I constantly feel as I am not good enough? Why don't I love myself? Will I ever be loved?
Do These Questions Sound Familiar?
A child who is abused by her parent will try to reduce the effects of the abuse on them emotionally and psychologically by scaling the abuse down. You might even find yourself trying to believe that you are not abused and that something happened which caused your mother to react abusively.
However, because many forms of narcissistic abuse, such as manipulation, slander, withholding, and emotional blackmail are not often discussed people don't think of these actions as abuse. Therefore, many children of narcissistic mothers don't even realize that they are abused
According to a recent study published on the American Journal of Psychiatry, someone with one or more indicators of childhood maltreatment had a chance of developing recurrent depression in later life around 2.27 times higher than that of people who had no history of maltreatment.
Evidence suggests that childhood maltreatment may negatively affect not only the lifetime risk of depression but also clinically relevant measures of depression, such as course of illness and treatment outcome.
Don't you think it's time to stop feeling guilty and inadequate?
Don't you think you are mature enough to recognize how your narcissistic mother is still affecting your life, get her out of your head and become who you really are?
I think, then, this book might help. I know you don't need another book filled in with useless information. You just want to HEAL.
Here's just a tiny fraction of what you'll discover:
- 10 signs of a Narcissistic Mother
- 11 signs of Narcissistic Abuse
- Manipulative tactics
- The Effect on Being Raised as a Daughter of a Narcissistic Mother
- How Your Narcissistic Mother Affects Your Mindset
- Allow Your Feelings to Grow and Accept Them
- Learn the art of Self-discipline
- Self-compassion exercises
- Heal Through Mindful Acts and Thoughts
- Heal Your Subconscious Mind
- 6 strategies to overcome anxiety
- Build the Life You Want, Become the Person You Want to Be
Your life is worth living and you are an amazing person with great talents.
Take the step to get yourself the help you need and deserve so you can learn to understand narcissistic abuse, learn to understand that you are a victim, and find ways to cope and overcome the abuse so you can reach your full potential and live the best life possible.
I have to be honest: this won't be easy, but I have been there and I have done that.
That's why I wrote this book to help you get unstuck and transform your life forever. The decision is yours.
Do you want to find out if you are being manipulated?
Do you want to find out the secrets of body language?
This guide contains 2 manuscripts in 1 book:
- Manipulation: Identifying Emotional Manipulation Tactics and Dealing with Manipulative People
- Body Language: Reading Minds Through Body Language - Change how People See You
This book shows you what manipulation means, which manipulation techniques there are and which ones you must watch out for. Also, you will learn what influence body language, posture, and voice have and how you can work on them yourself to build up self-confidence, self-esteem and inner strength. Many factors in interaction are important for self-expression. You can learn and develop these skills. Step out of the shadowy existence and finally realize your wishes, ideas, and goals again with positive manipulation.
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In this book Manipulation and Body Language, you will be able to better know not only the obscure techniques of mental manipulation, but also how to interpret subtle gestures and signs to analyze others, and know exactly how to act in any kind of social or work situation.
Do you want to learn speed reading people to recognize prohibited manipulations and dark psychology at first sight, and to protect yourself from mental hacking? If yes, then keep reading...
One of the first things you need to know is that this book is not just about analyzing others. There is far more to this subject than watching behavior and comprehending it. The journey, as with all things, starts with you. I will be there every step of the way to give you the exercises you need to be successful. Step by step, you will learn countless tips and tricks to help you cultivate your skillset.
Introspection is another skill you will inevitably pick up. A large part of understanding others begins with understanding yourself. We will briefly go over how to understand your body language and the impact that it has on others. Using your body language to encourage others, by the way, means that you need a solid understanding of your body language in the first place.
I hope you will not have to worry about a thing when tackling all your interpersonal problems. I also hope that you will be able to open doors for yourself, advance your career, iron out your interpersonal relationships, and more. There is no end to the benefits you can gain with a full understanding of analyzing others.
Here are a few more topics you can look forward to ahead:
- Speed reading people
- How to analyze people effectively and efficiently
- Perception
- Dangers of inaccurate perception
- Emotional intelligence
- Reading into the matters of the heart
- Body language
- Non-verbal communication
- Bonding with people (mirroring body language)
- Determining personality through birth order
- Pattern seeking secrets - legs & feet
- Mirroring body language
- Affairs of the heart... AND MORE
You have so much to learn, but so much time to do it in. This is a work in progress-as we all are Practice makes perfect; it takes time. However, I know that once you are through reading my book, you will be on the fast track to success. I am so excited to share all of these things with you
How many times have you heard the quote "Love heals everything" or "Love is the only hope in life" or something similar to those lines?
When you look around you, you see all these people happily in love and singing poems about the wonders of love. And then you are confused why you are not able to feel anything on those lines. All you feel is a pit in your stomach, a sense of fear and of always being on edge, but all you did was love, right? You did or are doing everything right, yet this "love" does not seem to be magical or does not seem to be healing you; rather, it appears to be destroying you by driving you crazy, and you notice that you have changed not for good.
My first book on Narcissistic abuse was published in October 2018, and I started writing it, just to share what had helped me after I left my husband after 10 years of emotional abuse. I had been researching a lot on the subject and found some great books online however I just wanted to share the scriptures and prayer plan that had helped me and a few women in my close circle, to get over our terrible experiences. Even though I had been divorced for 3 years at the time I wrote the book, I didn't feel ready to share my personal story. In this book, I will share parts of my story, not because I want to prove a point of how much I suffered, but I realize that survivors of psychological abuse share the same fears, and the purpose of my writing this book, is to hold your hand and give you the courage to face yours as I still do every single day to this very day.
I am assuming that if you have arrived here reading this book, then you have already begun the journey of true healing and magic. God has directed our paths to cross at this moment in time and I feel privileged to help guide you in the right direction to find true healing and peace.
Love, for sure, heals and is magical but only when done in the right manner. In the name of love, people can be poisonous and damage even the strongest souls. It is for this reason that love with a narcissist is bad because it is the wrong type of love. A narcissist does not understand love the way normal people understand it.
Narcissistic abuse is high on the ranks of toxic forms of love. It damages and destroys the soul like no other, completely changing the way you look at yourself. It rips your soul apart and causes destruction. And that is the biggest danger because no matter how the world looks at you, once your idea of yourself changes, then the damage is done.
In this book, you will be taken on a journey of healing by understanding the various forms of abuse, the ways to heal, and finally, the ways to find closure.
If you are not the victim who is reading this but know someone who may be in the situation, then this book will help you empathize with the victim and help them deal with their situation.
Congratulations on taking the first step toward healing: accepting the problem. As it has been said, "to err is human, to forgive is divine," by the time you finish this book, you will be able to forgive yourself and attain closure.
Have your dreams been shattered? Do you feel hopeless in thinking the desires of your heart will never be realized? Good News There is hope. Pamela shares with her readers, through honesty, transparency, and vulnerability, that her story is not void of hardship and trials, but beautifully built upon them. She demonstrates that the most challenging places she has traveled in life has influenced her to lean into Jesus and learn life's most valuable lessons. Pamela is excited to share with you the pure joy of receiving, in abundance, God's best.
This inspiring book will guide you to fervently seek God and His best for your life. You will learn how to: Stop surrendering to fear and sprint forward with confidence to realize your dreams. Recognize and treasure the lessons learned in the trenches of trials. Release your stubborn grip on those things keeping you from God's best, so you can open your arms wide to receive the surprising blessings that will bring you more happiness and fulfillment than you ever imagined. Stop living in fear, confusion, and hopelessness, and start today living saturated in God's blessings.
Pamela North is a first-time author with a huge heart for God. She is a wife to her husband, John and mom to her crazy tribe of three precious blessings: Alexander, Zechariah, and Josiah.
A bible scholar wannabe who seeks to glorify God daily, Pamela shakes her head in wonder that God chose her to be the forever mom to three boys who were once labeled orphans. She writes and speaks to share her passion and hope with others, inspiring them to say yes to being blessed beyond measure by God.
Pamela's vocational resume includes working in the healthcare field for over thirty years and being the current practice manager for a surgical eye care team. Family time consists of cheering for her boys on the sidelines of a soccer field or bowling lane, sous chef to hubby John (an amazing cook), and walking the beautiful beaches of Wilmington, North Carolina, where the family enjoys life with two dogs, a cat, and a bearded dragon.
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